The Hard No

If you don’t think boys need structure

Clear roles, clear rules

A hard NO.

A fundamental NO.

Just try it and see how it goes…

How’d it go?

A hard no. A crystal clear,

“that’s not how it is” or

“that’s not how it’s going to be”.

I think they know

I think they can smell your accommodation

And although they want it like a fat man wants a cupcake,

Somehow they also resent it, they resent your accommodation

It’s offensive to them, even thought that’s not concept they understand

And you may think they’re getting something

Getting away with something

And they know they’re getting something

And everything might think that is straight up love

Give it, get it.

Ha. Ha. Ha.

It’s deterioration.

That’s the only thing being achieved.

Give them what they want,

They deteriorate

You deteriorate.

They don’t know it but they resent it.

They grow to hate you and the world,

And as you continue to give give give you just can’t figure out why this ungrateful little fuck treats you so poorly.